Daycare is not fun for any family. The parents have just as much, if not more, anxiety than the kids. About.com posted an artcile with tips on how you can help yourself and the children adjust to daycare.
- Learn as much about the facility as possible. Ask for copies of calendars, lesson plans, and schedules. You can prepare yourself and your child if you know these things in advance. You can really get them excited about the opportunity.
- Express confidence about the new arrangement. If they sense your nervous, they'll be anxious and tearful. Speak about positive experiences they will experience there, and reassure them you will be coming back.
- Tour the center with your child. Introduce the child to their teacher, classroom, and new friends. It will help ease their nerves if they have a feel of what the setting will be.
- Establish a structure and routine. Set a bedtime, a departure time, and allow enough time so you can stay for a few moments to help the child adjust upon arrival.
- Remaining with your child the first time. This is important so the child doesn't feel you're not coming back. Introduce them to some toys, or friends. Engage them in an activity so they won't be focused on you leaving, rather on having a good time.
I know that leaving your child is never a fun experience no matter how much research or preparation you do. But it is comforting to the child when you can discuss certain aspects of the center, ask them questions, and get them excited about their "new adventure."
Good luck!
What about this tip: love your child and everything comes out naturally! Is love outdated? Psychology comes after it, do you know that?
Posted by: Melinda | August 9, 2006 2:23 PM | Permalink to Comment